First Taste

Went on a date with each of the girls I met downtown last week, J and E.

J

J is sexy, petite, and has the eyes/skin combination I really like. We met up for a beer and chatted then I moved her to a lookout spot probably too far away from my place. She seemed enamored with me for the beginning of the date, but the lull and boredom probably dragged on a bit.

I am damn good at cold reading, and I did a good job of push and pull verbally. Kino was strong, incidental knee touching, etc. This woman’s beauty being almost my exact type is a little unnerving at times, but I led the interaction and did not hesitate. She pushed back and tested me a bit logistically, why this why that, but it went alright. I bounced her to mine to grab the wine before heading to the lookout and she did not say a word, but wanted to leave my place asap. She mentioned how it was weird to be in a strangers home so soon after meeting. I wonder if this was a conscious test or if she felt my intentions. My goal was just to get her more comfortable seeing my place before heading out.

Once at the park she balked on drinking the wine, excuses about work tomorrow morning or not. Not quite sure if it was legitimate. Either my game isn’t quite tight yet, or me spending this amount of effort on a date (fairly low in my mind, paid for a pitcher of beer and picked her up). Either that or she is looking for a boyfriend type and may try to make me wait.

We bounced soon after the lookout, her pushing to go home and I got a lot of resistance for going for a makeout. We did make out and I tried to push things further but got a little too aggressive.

She’s a fun girl and has a bit of edge to her. She’s very girlish in appearance and makeup, but has some masculine qualities. It’s an interesting mix and it makes sense that she’s lived in Vancouver for 6 years but grew up in Korea.

E

I met with E the day after J. I met her in the early evening and we grabbed a coffee in a touristy area. It was raining and offered no chance to go outside. She is warm, and attentive and feminine. She did not test me nearly as much as J, so it felt like a breeze crushing her weak frame tests. I moved her to sushi later. Normally I never do dinner and such with dates, especially first dates, but I had not eaten yet at 6pm and I am a regular at ta very casual spot. I paid for our meal of which I ate 80% and the chefs and I were busting on her and each other. It was a ruckus and a good time. Going back for social proof may not be the worst idea.

I moved her back to mine for a drink and she complied easily but kept testing my intentions. She also used the word stranger often, maybe it’s an Asian thing trying to frame us as not close. I was making progress right as my younger brother came home and she retracted immediately. I imagine this is the ‘bubble bursting’ as it were. The story line is broken and real life challenges come swamping in. She never relaxes even when I move her into my room, she is pushing for an exit.

We bounce to my car and as we are outside her apartment on a major street around 10pm and we start making out hard in my car. It goes on for a couple of minutes and I start to rub her pussy through her jeans. I remember reading somewhere on Good Looking Loser recently that if you can get your hand down her pants, you are golden and the girl will be good to go. This advice did not disappoint. Once I got a finger inside her she let loose, there was no resistance and I unzipped my jeans and she went down on me.

I proceeded to drive while she was giving head to a nearby park. It was about 60 seconds away, my plan was to fuck in public cause I have a small car with a small backseat. Old school prelude for those wondering. I question now if this was a right choice, as she did a little mental gymnastics as we were driving.

In the end, she had no intention of getting out of the car, so we went at it like two high school teenagers at a drive in movie.

Now

All in all, 2 out of 3 approaches end in dates, and 1 lay on first date. I am starting to see why daygame has such an appeal.

E is gone for 3 weeks travelling, and J is playing hard to get over text. I think I have poor text game, but not sure what the barriers are. J shot me an excited text in reply to my ping back today, as she did after our date last week. Who knows?

Day 3 on the streets

Yesterday went quite well all things considered. I have been working lots trying to get my hours in at the casino, so I’ll catch you guys up.

First approach Korean 30 year old

This girl is 100% my type and she is a beauty, big eyes, soft features, tiny little body and pale skin. She looks 20 years old but playing with her hands I figured out her age (I’ll share this game with you guys another day). It was her and her friend and I approached them in the cafe. My coach came by and we pulled them for an instant date for 40 minutes before ditching them and moving on.

Positives

I busted on her and broke rapport several times. Teasing her and her friend for doing nothing but playing with make up all day waiting for a rich husband etc etc.

Things to work on

My verbal game was full of excuses in the beginning. Not owning my intentions with a playful vibe.
Did not move into her while walking and isolating my girl from her friend.
Deferential energy towards my coach, he was leading more as the interaction went on. This is a little inevitable because of our relationship but I could have been leading and taken charge. I noticed my girl shit testing me more and more as the date went on and this is because of my beta role compared to the coach.

I am seeing her tonight for a date but she pushed for a group date with her friend and my friend which I denied. I was decisive over text and she relented. I am sure I will be shit tested hard tonight, I look forward to the dance.

We then wandered round for 15 minutes trying to find a girl. We saw one across the street say goodbye to her friend and she was tall and cute. The shy, sexy feel I like. Then I had a breakthrough as I jogged across the street to open her. All the pressure dropped from my shoulders, I was entirely one with myself and my intuition. I hit flow before even approaching her.

My mind just said to myself.

This is crazy
This is silly
This is fun

It felt like I was on a playground as a child again. It reminded me of my first approach running after a girl from the bar to kiss her in front of her friends 5 years ago on my first bootcamp. I was so at ease. I felt this was just so unbelievably silly and fun.

22 year old Korean girl

So I chased after the girl, dropped my standard direct opener. I have not tried the Yadstop (any opinions on this?). I come up from the side walk slightly faster than her and turn and say “Hey, I saw you cross the street. I had to come say hi. You look really nice” And she lit up. Her eyes went wide and she blushed and said thank you. I was in. I commented on her friends silly backpack, made a couple assumptions shes from Korea. Once she asked me a question I knew I was in. So we walked for 5 mins and I got her number (she was on her way to work). I am 100% sure I am banging this girl.

I met up with my coach and we went over my verbal game mistakes from the first set and I know what I have to work on. Make assumptions and find out her values from how she responds. I am poor at this. I am also very poor at non direct openers, which I must work on. I simply cannot go up to every girl and say Hey I think ur cute lets go get coffee and fuck. I need to be leading at all times, and building compliance. There is some value in the theory that game is simply compliance test after compliance test.

I approached another gorgeous young girl with my same mindset and playfulness, totally direct but she did not hook. She had the same name as my last girlfriend ha.

State control is so important, no different from poker. The more I compare the two, the more similar they are.

I will continue to wonder how much Game I really possess. I am tall, lean and above average in looks. I had been recruited for small modeling gigs as a teenager. I had a youthful and playful energy and lots of charisma, but I question if I get away with mediocre game because of my passive value. As Krauser says often “Game is getting younger and hotter girls”, and I wonder if I am doing that.

Lots to improve on but I cannot complain with 2 dates out of 3 cute ass girls. I also know what I need to work on.

Keep grinding

Perfect is boring

I sit here seething with frustration at myself and my lack of action. I am an intermediate to Game and the Red Pill but I still have not killed the hesitation and doubt within myself when it comes to Daygame. After walking downtown for 2 hours on no sleep (bad idea) Sunday, I found myself with two beautiful opportunities offered to me today by the universe and I squandered them both.

Maybe the break up with my favorite girl did a number on me, as I have gone from having 4 girls a month ago to having 0 now. My ego is bruised and this may be impacting my self esteem and self worth. I won’t have a new girl soon if I allow opportunities like this to pass by.

It’s comical. Girls that I am not invested in or interested in, I do not bother to approach ‘for the sake of practice’. Then on the rare occasion I get a girl (or two!) that is really my type during the day, my approach anxiety and hesitation kicks in.

Reading and studying will do you no good without action. Ego is one hell of a drug.

As the Great Pook said ‘Perfect is boring. To be human is beautiful’.

I promise you all and myself I will capitalize on the next one.

Day 1

Signed up for a bootcamp and went out yesterday for my first taste of real ‘daygame’

We started with a short lecture, i did 2 approaches and we did some social warm up drills.

My coach kept it simple and it was not heavy like a lot of day game material out there.

approach 1

young (20~) freckled blonde welsh origin

My approach was not strong enough, my body did not square up to her, giving the impression that i am wasting her time and she is okay to leave

My mind went blank as I did not know what to say but there was little anxiety on my part. I was indifferent to her caring but she did not put any effort in

I broke eye contact about 100 times, she grabbed her phone and I did not move her.

No kino

I did close and get a # and I stayed in the interaction for 3 minutes. But I had no enthusiasm

#2

early 30s Chinese foreigner married

I followed her around a bit and waited for the ‘right moment’, of which there is none

I had voice inflections up and down, no authority and I come off as indecisive.

a bit of enthusiasm but did not square up my body.

She did more work than the first girl, she filled in silences and was excited to talk to me

Married so she was happy to practice her english with me

More kino, and teased her a bit.

Lessons from day 1

I am unconsciously feeling that I am not worthy of these girls or that I am wasting their time. This explains my hesitant body language and voice inflections.

I am not aggressive enough in my approach, frame and approach is soft and not dominant.

Not very enthusiastic, this may have been caused by me being luke warm on each girl being pushed by my coach to approach

The reason I want to get into day game is so I can get hotter younger girls, so I need my approaches to reflect that and go in with an entitlement mentality. I am an extravert by nature so I expect these problems to be fixed quickly