Yesterday went quite well all things considered. I have been working lots trying to get my hours in at the casino, so I’ll catch you guys up.
First approach Korean 30 year old
This girl is 100% my type and she is a beauty, big eyes, soft features, tiny little body and pale skin. She looks 20 years old but playing with her hands I figured out her age (I’ll share this game with you guys another day). It was her and her friend and I approached them in the cafe. My coach came by and we pulled them for an instant date for 40 minutes before ditching them and moving on.
I busted on her and broke rapport several times. Teasing her and her friend for doing nothing but playing with make up all day waiting for a rich husband etc etc.
Things to work on
My verbal game was full of excuses in the beginning. Not owning my intentions with a playful vibe.
Did not move into her while walking and isolating my girl from her friend.
Deferential energy towards my coach, he was leading more as the interaction went on. This is a little inevitable because of our relationship but I could have been leading and taken charge. I noticed my girl shit testing me more and more as the date went on and this is because of my beta role compared to the coach.
I am seeing her tonight for a date but she pushed for a group date with her friend and my friend which I denied. I was decisive over text and she relented. I am sure I will be shit tested hard tonight, I look forward to the dance.
We then wandered round for 15 minutes trying to find a girl. We saw one across the street say goodbye to her friend and she was tall and cute. The shy, sexy feel I like. Then I had a breakthrough as I jogged across the street to open her. All the pressure dropped from my shoulders, I was entirely one with myself and my intuition. I hit flow before even approaching her.
My mind just said to myself.
This is crazy
This is silly
This is fun
It felt like I was on a playground as a child again. It reminded me of my first approach running after a girl from the bar to kiss her in front of her friends 5 years ago on my first bootcamp. I was so at ease. I felt this was just so unbelievably silly and fun.
22 year old Korean girl
So I chased after the girl, dropped my standard direct opener. I have not tried the Yadstop (any opinions on this?). I come up from the side walk slightly faster than her and turn and say “Hey, I saw you cross the street. I had to come say hi. You look really nice” And she lit up. Her eyes went wide and she blushed and said thank you. I was in. I commented on her friends silly backpack, made a couple assumptions shes from Korea. Once she asked me a question I knew I was in. So we walked for 5 mins and I got her number (she was on her way to work). I am 100% sure I am banging this girl.
I met up with my coach and we went over my verbal game mistakes from the first set and I know what I have to work on. Make assumptions and find out her values from how she responds. I am poor at this. I am also very poor at non direct openers, which I must work on. I simply cannot go up to every girl and say Hey I think ur cute lets go get coffee and fuck. I need to be leading at all times, and building compliance. There is some value in the theory that game is simply compliance test after compliance test.
I approached another gorgeous young girl with my same mindset and playfulness, totally direct but she did not hook. She had the same name as my last girlfriend ha.
State control is so important, no different from poker. The more I compare the two, the more similar they are.
I will continue to wonder how much Game I really possess. I am tall, lean and above average in looks. I had been recruited for small modeling gigs as a teenager. I had a youthful and playful energy and lots of charisma, but I question if I get away with mediocre game because of my passive value. As Krauser says often “Game is getting younger and hotter girls”, and I wonder if I am doing that.
Lots to improve on but I cannot complain with 2 dates out of 3 cute ass girls. I also know what I need to work on.